written and posted by members of Lancashire Dead Good Poets' Society

Saturday 28 March 2020

The Space Between

It's been another quiet week in the jewel of the north, splendidly sunny for sure, but eerily deserted for the most part. This is social distancing in practice, in a concerted attempt to slow the advancing ripple of Coronavirus contagion through the land.

With the gym out of bounds for the last fortnight, I've been walking from my house each morning along Blackpool promenade for about 90 minutes, sometimes turning left (south to Starr Gate), sometimes right (north to Gynn Square). I haven't encountered many people; the occasional solitary walker or jogger (sometimes with dog in tow), a few cyclists. We all keep well apart, per the 2 metre rule, conscientious in maintaining the space between us. Sometimes we wave.

On these brisk walks, I take my i-Pod, wear headphones and frequently sing along to whatever I'm listening to if I think there's no one else within earshot (which is usually the case); except for earlier today when a cyclist sped past me and turned to shout back "you should really go on the X-Factor". I think not, but I do sometimes yearn to sing and play in a band again. Well that's not going to happen for the foreseeable future, is it? This new restrictive regime is likely to be in place for months.

So far the pandemic doesn't appear to have made significant inroads to Blackpool. As I write, there are still only 9 officially confirmed cases in a town of 150,000 people, that's 5 more than there were two weeks ago. If we really are about a fortnight behind London on the curve then the introduction of social distancing ought to have a marked impact up here in slowing down the advance of the virus.

Hopperesque Social Distancing
I know for many people these unexpected changes have come as a huge jolt, people with partners, children, jobs. I've mentioned in a previous blog that my daughters live and work in London. They're both working from home now, one is likely to go on furlough and the other has had her salary halved for the foreseeable future, plus her boyfriend has just been made redundant. There are hard times ahead. I count myself fortunate in these circumstances that I'm retired, live for the most part on my own, and am quite comfortable with just my own company for reasonable periods. Whether I'll feel the same way in three or six months' time I'm not sure.

There could be significant and permanent changes in the way we live our lives as a result of what we're going through at the moment. Viewed from a positive perspective, there's a huge opportunity to re-evaluate what truly matters to us as a society and all manner of interesting innovations may result from necessity (being the mother of invention). If this wartime spirit and sense of urgency can bring together academics, the government, research labs, industrialists to create new technology in weeks as social  concerns take priority over capital, think how many more of the world's pressing issues (climate emergency, endemic diseases, malnutrition) could be sorted with the same co-operative spirit - maybe a once in a century chance to press the re-set button to good effect.

Our national Poet Laureate, Simon Armitage, has already written a rather good response to the Covid-19 crisis which I urge you to seek out. I shall not be following suit in writing about Coronavirus. I find I generally need more time - more social distance even - from events to let ideas and impacts form themselves into a response that I feel satisfied with.

Instead, I offer you this, inspired by my reading of Lucretius ('On The Nature Of Things') and Fritjof Capra ('The Tao Of Physics') and the collapse of a relationship. It has lain semi-written for several years but I figured would fit theme on this occasion if I could finish it off - so I did (until I decide to change it).

Coming Apart?
The paradox of every solid thing
is that it's far more void than substance:
table, chair, bed, bodies, skin, hair,
all comprised of atoms,
molecules in small degree,
chaining, gravitating, oscillating
in the space between, a lot of air.

Our settled state, far more precarious
than we'd ever like to think,
could fly apart in the blink of an eye
if random factors so dictate.
This 'us' is not inviolate
despite our fondest wish. We try
to hold each other dear, to no avail

when distance intervenes,
for change is constant, the forces
manifold and complicating.
Despite our best professions about
fulfilling love's illusive dream,
I sense you dematerialising,
our future, coming apart it seems.

Thanks for reading. Be cheerful, remain connected, stay safe, S ;-)

68 comments:

Nigella D said...

Love the blog, love the picture, love the poem.

CI66Y said...

A fine blog Steve. Good to know you're still enjoying the seafront walks. I know one should probably not speak ill of the divorced, but I think you're being very generous here to your lying, cheating ex. Ever the romantic. Take care up there.

Steve Rowland said...

Clive, you're right about it being best not to heap blame. You know I have more than one ex - and I'm sorry to say I've been the lying, cheating party in the past, so in a sense this was karma and in the poem I was more interested in trying to understand and account for how and why these things happen. You're right about my being a romantic too. So it goes. Stay well.

Rod Downey said...

Thank you Steve for the life-affirming blog. I'm hearing Covid-19 cases in the north-west are accelerating so I send you my best wishes. I've seen the above comments and I must say I didn't read the poem in that way. I thought it was a much more universal statement (and a good one at that) but then I don't have insider knowledge.

Binty said...

Very good Steve 👍

Celia M said...

We have been so lucky with the weather. It would be so much more depressing if it was being cold and wet every day. Small mercies.

Deke Hughes said...

I like the way you've threaded the 'space between' motif through the blog and into you poem, very neat. I thought the poem was excellent Steve. Keep pounding the prom - you're so lucky to have one.

Carey Jones said...

Thanks for the update from the jewel of the north. It's all a bit more scary down here, confirmed cases and deaths rising fast. Stay safe, CJ.

F O'Jay said...

I like the idea of a re-set button. Unfortuntely I suspect the privileged order will reassert itself. Good poem :)

Anonymous said...

I agree with (Mr?) Jones above. It looks like we've had the calm before and now here comes the storm. Stay as isolated as possible, keep up good hygeine and hope the NHS can cope.

Harry Lennon said...

Lovely but sad poem. I really like the paradox theme Steve, the idea that everything is more air than substance despite appearances, and then that haunting image of someone and all that's associated with them just dematerialising.

Roger Wakeley said...

Did you see that photoshopped version of Hopper's Nighthawks that's doing the rounds on social media - just the lit up bar with no people in it? Not so funny I suppose given what's happening in New York. I thought your poem was very good. I trust you're all still okay up north. We're getting big increases here in the Midlands. Stay safe.

Unknown said...

I enjoyed your blog, the poem and attendant comments!
The intricacies of all our lives...
You sound an interesting guy :-)

Ben Templeton said...

Reads very well as ever and that's a fine poem. 👍

Dani Merakli said...

And another lovely thought-provoking poem.

LG said...

The bit about the X Factor made me laugh. When did your band break up? Must be 15 years ago. Do you still write songs or is it all poetry these days (which I really enjoy by the way). Stay well.

Brian Cassell said...

A good blog Steve and a fab poem. Hope all is well in the jewel :)

Anonymous said...

Very good Mr R, neat concept and clever last line! :)

Lizzie Fentiman said...

Surprise surprise! I've been took a bit crook, coupla days ago. I have mild symptoms of Covid19, the cough and raised temperature and I'm right off coffee. So self-isolation in leafy Jindalee for a week and hoping to get over this shit pretty damned quick. Just wanted to say I enjoyed your latest. Keep them coming Steve, we need normal as much as poss. Hope you stay well.

Steve Rowland said...

Oh Lizzie. Fingers crossed for you. Stay positive. I'll be bashing out a new blog this afternoon.

Max Page said...

Fine words and sentiments. Let's hope something positive comes of this crisis. I love the poem. 👍👍👍

Jon Cromwell said...

Great blog Steve. And Keir Starmer announced as new Labour leader. That's one small step in the right direction towards social and economic justice when all this is over.

Miriam Fife said...

That's a very intriguing poem.

Khalil said...

Stay free - in every sense of the word. I love the poem :)

Emily Laws said...

Wonderful. Thank you

Jay Henderson said...

Thank you for this Steve - a great read. I particulary liked the call to re-set and of course your poem. Stay well, keep writing.

Billy Banter said...

Bet theres a lot of coming apart at the moment!

Beth Randle said...

Hope you're good, enjoying your seaside. I love the poem :)

Jumilla said...

Love the paradoxical poetic musing on the nature of substance and change.

Anonymous said...

What a great blog. I look forward to reading more - have bookmarked this site.

Mitch Carragher said...

'How can we hang on to a dream? How can it ever be the way it seems?' - the late, great Tim hardin (as I'm sure you know Steve). Great blog, righteous thoughts and a fine poem. Stay well.

Gareth Boyd Haskins said...

Another terrific piece of blogging. Great choice of picture too - do you think Hopper was prophetic? I enjoyed the latest poem as well, really very good all round. 👍

Martin Brewster said...

That hint (splash?) of resigned sexual innuendo at the end of your poem - priceless :)

Anonymous said...

A class blog and I love the poem.

Charlotte Mullins said...

Very well written all of it (as ususal Steve) and what a pertinent picture to use.👍

Ross Madden said...

Another great blog and poem. Quite naturally a lot of people are making public noises about what you called the reset button, a chance to re-evaluate what's important to us as a society. I hope fundamental changes for the better form part of the new normal once this pandemic is over.

Peter Fountain said...

Top marks for another beautifully phrased blog. I like the reset button logic and the choice of that Hopper painting is spot on. The concept and language of your Coming Apart? poem is lovely and I like e.g. the way you'v opted for "love's illusive dream" rather than the more cliched "elusive". All round very good. Keep sending the links and I trust you're staying healthy and sane in these troubled times.

Stu Hodges said...

Another fabulous blog. I love the poem and the Hopper painting - so apt both of them.

Lynne Carter said...

Very good Steve. Stay safe. 💚

Anonymous said...

Beautifully expressed. I think your poetry is fantastic.

Jennifer Blackstock said...

I really enjoyed this; so well written. 👍

Hayleigh Wootton said...

Very interesting and I love the poem.

Brett Cooper said...

Love in a time of Covid! Sums it up brilliantly.

Hannah Wrigley said...

A thought-provoking read. I love the line "I sense you dematerialising" as that's how it happens, isn't it.

Caroline Asher said...

So it continues for us all, this restricted life of separateness. Your poem is beautiful, sad, thought-provoking. Very well written.

Minnie the Manx said...

It's a strange sensation reading something with the advantage of hindsight. This was obviously written during the first lockdown and here we are eight months later and still in that awful predicament. We've got off fairly lightly here, less than 400 cases all told but I read that Blackpool will still be in tier 3 with stricter rules than the previous tier 3 restrictions. I think your poem is excellent and so brave in trying to be philosophical about the whole complete disaster of Covid 19.

Seb Politov said...

What a great poem about the insubstantial nature of everything. 👍

Malcolm Drysdale said...

A great blog, speaks to our current state!

Paula McShane said...

On a cold, wet December morning ten months into this bloody pandemic, I think those of us who have got partners and who are in relationships should feel enormously grateful for the fact. I hear so much talk of loneliness these dark days.

Jayden Lomas said...

I love that painting and your poem.

Bickerstaffe said...

I remember reading this blog back in April and wondering if we were all being a little complacent so it's interesting to see it still trending on your blogsite and I've just re-read it. I also checked the latest figures for Blackpool. Total cases since the start of the pandemic has just topped 5,000 in the town. By my reckoning that's 3% of the population. 227 people have died of Covid-19 in Blackpool in those 9 months. Those statistics seem low compared to all the grief everyone has gone through but I suppose they would have been much higher if the restrictions had not been introduced.

Steve Rowland said...

Hi Bickerstaffe. A quick response because I was logged in as your comment arrived. I read the Blackpool Gazette this morning the head of Blackpool Victoria hospital saying there had been 51 Covid-19 deaths there just in the last week and he's worried about a winter surge. That's very concerning.

Baz Merrick said...

I realised part way through that this post was written some months ago near the beginning of the first lockdown. That doesn't really diminish the impact of it at all. I know of quite a few relationships that have foundered because of the restrictions of recent months and a surprising number that have started up online with the individuals not yet having met face-to-face. What a weird world we are living in right now. I thought your poem was excellent.

Anonymous said...

Loneliness is the biggest impact of Covid.

Amber Molloy said...

That is a beautiful poem.

The Existentialist said...

I think we all know the British government has not done the best job in combating the pandemic (does the UK have fifth highest cases and deaths in the world?) and social distancing is going to be with us for a few more months yet. I get that your poem was largely written before Covid arrived - and what will be will be - yet it takes the measure of relationships pulled apart by external forces so well. The last 9 months that have seen an unprecedented number of relationships founder, mine included.

Clive Butler said...

Lovely poem, clever too. I smiled at the sexual innuendo of your poem's last line. 👏

Anonymous said...

Significant and permanent changes? Could be for better or worse I suppose. The promise of a virus gives us a chance to get as much of the old 'normal' back as we want but I hope we'll do some things differently like put the brakes on intensive livestock farming. I think it will change the high streets for ever, make us more online.

Steve Rowland said...

Hello Anon. I assume that you meant 'promise of a vaccine...' I agree that will be the game-changer as regards eventually and effectively combating the pandemic around the world. I hold to the hope that a more co-operative spirit between nations will be a lasting outcome of the global effort and that it won't be just another nice earner for the pharma companies.

Mel Goldsmith said...

I love the poem, esp. the choice of "love's illusive dream" instead of elusive in the context of the insubstantial imagery.

Simon Pickford said...

'The Space Between' is such a resonant phrase. Where does it come from? I'm sure it's something famous... but I've googled and all I could find were a song (Dave Matthews Band), a film (The Space Between Us - not that) and an expensive poetry book. It's bugging me. I loved the idea of the poem and its tone of wistful wisdom.

Anonymous said...

I listened to you perform the poem tonight and the phrase 'rhythm of the inexorable' sprang to my mind. Brilliant conceptually and I love the unexpected innuendo at the close.

Noragh Montgomerie said...

Here we go again, national lockdown for the 3rd time and I fear now more than I ever did on the first occasion even though there is a vaccine in the pipeline. This is a mighty struggle in which sadly many thousands will fall and those of us who are left standing will feel shattered and altered for ever.

Elise Curzon said...

How naive we all were back in the spring of 2020 even though we knew the pandemic would change so much. That it's still raging is a frightening fact as others above have stressed - and your lovely poem continues to be relevant.

Tanya Green said...

One year on, this still resonates. I love the poem.

Sonja Makarova said...

A lovely poem of our times.

Anonymous said...

You said it: significant and permanent changes in the way we live our lives. We can hope it's for the better...?

Daisy Lockyer said...

It's interesting to read people's states of mind regarding COVID in retrospect. What a great poem.