written and posted by members of Lancashire Dead Good Poets' Society

Friday 17 March 2023

In 1956 Mrs Reidy Wanted To Become A Hairdresser

To choose a favourite painting has been a bit of a challenge. I’ve always been creative and appreciated art but I’m afraid I’m more of a "I know what I like" sort of critic, rather than one with any expert knowledge. I’m ashamed to say that my A level art history lessons were spent messing about at the back, laughing with friends and flicking things at the teacher.

When I followed school with art college I really wasn’t much better. Lots of chatting, far too much giggling - all those marvellous paintings going right over my head….. I went into Graphic Design and didn’t take much notice of paintings for the next thirty years.

Since becoming involved in the local art scene, surrounded by arty friends and family, I've become more interested in contemporary art. I’m intrigued by the work produced, and find myself wondering what inspired it and where the ideas come from to produce the actual piece. I wouldn’t know where to start.

I’ve been moved to buy an original art work only once. It was by a local artist who was producing a series of paintings of chairs from photos sent to her. I emailed her a picture of a favourite chair, she painted it, I loved it and I bought it. So I suppose you could say that’s one of my favourite paintings.


Then there are the torn scraps of paper adorned with children’s and grandchildren’s paintings which I just can’t bear to throw away: smudges and splashes of paint, unidentifiable objects and people, but all done with purpose - I can still see those little faces, full of concentration - and often just as covered in paint as the paper.

A few weeks before I was fifty my husband told me he wanted to try out his school camera. I remember thinking it was slightly odd, as I was the photographer, he never bothered. He took a couple of close ups of my face and seemed satisfied with the results. I didn’t give it another thought until I was presented with a large framed canvas on my birthday, my own face staring back at me. 


It’s not a true likeness but it’s undoubtedly me, and made all the more special by the thought behind it and the effort that went into it. Another favourite.

However, after a lot of thought, I think my all time favourite painting, now 66 years old and hanging on the wall in my front room is one entitled, ‘In 1956 Mrs Reidy Wanted to Become a Hairdresser……’

Painted at the age of four, I remember it vividly: the sight and smell of those solid paint blocks, the way they felt heavy in my hand, how the brush scraped against the paper as it dried, the paper itself, thin and easily ripped. I worked with a concentration that was subsequently lacking as a reckless teen.



In 1956 Mrs Reidy Wanted to Become a Hairdresser

The subject was, ‘What I want to be when I grow up.’
We didn’t have canvases, palettes or multiple colours
Nor a large jug of brushes, every size
No model to gaze on
No smock or beret

Just…..

Dad's shirt cut off at the sleeves and
Mrs Gorvin, our teacher, on a low chair
Sides spilling over, flesh pink bloomers peeping out
from voluminous skirt hem
Talking slowly and clearly
Important instructions for painting
(Although I’m sure she’d never done any)
Don't make a mess, use ALL the colours
Wash out paintbrush in between!
I listened impatiently,
Eyes darting to the fresh white paper laid out on the desk
I knew what I wanted to paint

I worked at an easel twice my height
Peter Hipkin on his masterpiece the other side
Cheap Paper secured with one large bulldog clip
Paints in solid blocks,
Water in a jar, transforming as the
one thick, unwieldy brush swirled blue and red and yellow
till it merged into a muddy brown
And then, stroke by stroke, there I was, my future secured, 
a hairdresser complete with high heels and rollers in my hair

Tools and equipment very poor
But a four year old’s imagination? Oh so rich.
And that was surely more than enough?

Thanks for reading...... Jill Reidy

11 comments:

Nigella D said...

Loved your masterpiece (aged 4) and the poem.

Mark Hurley said...

I enjoyed the anecdotal blog and the poem.

Jen McDonagh said...

A great read. I loved the observational powers at work in your poem.

Steve Rowland said...

What a lovely blog, Jill, disarmingly honest and entertaining to read. Painting at junior school was always a highlight. My dad had some cheap monographs of the artists which I used to like looking through and my paintings were 'impressionistic' in style as a result! I probably peaked at around age 8 (LOL). Well done for keeping your early masterpiece. All mine got thrown away decades ago. I thought the poem was tremendous, such an evocative account. 👏

terry quinn said...

What a lovely thought by your husband.

I really enjoyed your memories.

The title of your poem should be an object lesson to all poets on how to grab attention, make you read on. It is brilliant.

Jill Reidy said...

Thank you so much ❤️

Jill Reidy said...

Thanks Steve, much appreciated ❤️ I’m glad you peaked at some point 😂x

Poppy Deveraux said...

What a great read.

Millie Baxter said...

I enjoyed this, the blog and the poem. I'll take tour word that the portrait is undoubtedly you... I've only got your self-portrait aged 4 to go on :)

Miriam Fife said...

Very entertaining.

Jill Reidy said...

Thanks so much, I really appreciate your comments ❤️