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Showing posts with label Naomi Shihab Nye. Show all posts

Saturday, 7 March 2026

On Coffee And Cafés

Not such a lengthy blog for a change, this Saturday night. Having written essays in recent weeks about curry and kings and tangerines, this post will be as short and stimulating as a shot of Greek coffee.

The coffee tree was first cultivated commercially in the Yemen, having been introduced there from the rainforests of Ethiopia where it grew wild. For a long time the  Yemenis had a world monopoly on the export of coffee beans. 

From 1538 to 1636 the Ottoman Empire controlled the southern coastal region of the Yemen, notably its famous coffee port of Mocha. Egypt was the richest province of the Ottoman Empire at that time and the chief commodity it traded was Yemeni coffee. 

Cairo merchants were responsible for moving it from the Yemen to markets throughout the Islamic world - the Arabian peninsula, Persia, Syria and Türkiye. Cities like Cairo, Damascus, Istanbul and Tehran all contained coffee houses by the middle of the 16th century and coffee drinking became a staple feature of Muslim life.

From the Middle East, the Mediterranean trade route soon took coffee to Greece and Italy and from there on to Germany, France, the Netherlands and England. Coffee houses were well-established in many major European centres by the end of the 17th century. 

The French were initially responsible for taking coffee plants to the West Indies and from plantations there it eventually spread to Mexico and then South America. Today Brazil is the world's leading producer of coffee beans, closely followed by Colombia Guatemala, Indonesia, Nicaragua, Venezuela and Vietnam.

a Greek café
My favourite place to drink coffee (not that I do it so much anymore) is in a Greek καφενείο (coffee house) as pictured. In truth, it's really Turkish coffee, thick and black (from that Islamist tradition narrated above), but the Greeks stopped calling it that for political reasons in the 19th century. 

A good café, coffee house or kafeneio should be a restful place to read, socialise or just watch the world go by while enjoying an invigorating shot of caffeine. 

Coffee houses are civilised and hospitable institutions, a kind of universal oasis in the maelstrom of life, and that's all there is to it really.

coffee with my grandson recently
For a café related poem, I have turned again to my favourite Palestinian-American poet, Naomi Shihab Nye. This is from her 1998 collection, 'Fuel'

My Uncle's Favourite Coffee Shop

Serum of steam rising from the cup,
what comfort to be known personally by Barbara,
her perfect pouring hand and starched ascot,
known as the two easy eggs and the single pancake,
without saying.
What pleasure for an immigrant—
anything without saying.

My uncle slid into his booth.
I cannot tell you—how I love this place.
He drained the water glass, noisily clinking his ice.
My uncle hailed from an iceless region.
He had definite ideas about water drinking.
I cannot tell you—all the time. But then he’d try.

My uncle wore a white shirt every day of his life.
He raised his hand against the roaring ocean
and the television full of lies.
He shook his head back and forth
from one country to the other
and his ticket grew longer.
Immigrants had double and nothing all at once.
Immigrants drove the taxis, sold the beer and Cokes.
When he found one note that rang true,
he sang it over and over inside.
Coffee, honey.
His eyes roamed the couples at other booths,
their loose banter and casual clothes.
But he never became them.

Uncle who finally left in a bravado moment
after 23 years, to live in the old country forever,
to stay and never come back,

maybe it would be peaceful now,
maybe for one minute,
I cannot tell you—how my heart has settled at last.
But he followed us to the sidewalk
saying, Take care, Take care,
as if he could not stand to leave us.

I cannot tell—

how we felt
to learn that the week he arrived,
he died. Or how it is now,
driving his parched streets,
feeling the booth beneath us as we order,
oh, anything, because if we don’t,
nothing will come.
                                                   Naomi Shihab Nye





Thanks for reading. Have a good week, S ;-)

Saturday, 18 October 2025

Wedding Cake

It's serendipitous that this was 40 years ago tomorrow. Susan and I moved house two days after we got married, and lived out of boxes and on wedding cake for weeks while we sorted out the Victorian townhouse we'd just bought, before honeymooning in Scotland in November 1985.

the ritual of cutting the cake
You want to know about the cake? It was a two-tiered rich fruit cake with marzipan and royal icing in a simple, classical design, made for us by a local village bakery/cake shop. I remember it was quite a weight. Some of it was served to guests at the reception with champagne, some was cut up, boxed and sent to friends and relatives who weren't with us on the day, and some, as I mentioned earlier, sustained us through our house move and into the following weeks. Had we known that our first child was going to be born almost nine months to the day after our wedding night, we might have saved some to celebrate that event as well (as used to be a custom, apparently). 

There have been other, very informative blogs this week about the whole history and tradition of wedding cakes from ancient Greek times onwards. They are well worth a read. I will just precis here. Originally they would have been made of bread (and you can see in the photograph above a bread wedding offering with a white ribbon that some friends brought back from Greece for us). Then 'bride pies' as they were often called went through a phase of being more like savoury puddings in the 16th and 17th centuries before evolving into the rich sugar-rush confections that have graced wedding receptions since Victorian times (below, artist unknown).

cutting the cake at a Victorian wedding reception
I assume the symbolism of the wedding cake, its cutting (usually jointly by bride and groom) and the sharing with family and friends, is all about  good vibes for a happy and productive union and the sharing of signs of goodwill all round, rather than any show of ostentation, superiority or condescension on the part of the newlyweds or their families, though I am reminded of the maxim: 'More tiers, more tears.' Make of that what you will. 

For a poem this week, I've chosen something by Naomi Shihab Nye, a Palestinian-American poet of considerable repute.  She's given me permission to reproduce 'Wedding Cake' here. Thank you Naomi. It's from her 1998 collection, 'Fuel' (published by BOA Editions Ltd). If you like this beautifully constructed and resonant poem, I highly recommend you to check out her writings.

Wedding Cake
Once on a plane 
a woman asked me to hold her baby
 and disappeared. 
I figured it was safe, 
our being on a plane and all. 
How far could she go?
 
She returned one hour later, 
having changed her clothes 
and washed her hair. 
I didn't recognize her.
 
By this time the baby 
and I had examined 
each other's necks. 
We had cried a little. 
I had a silver bracelet 
and a watch. 
Gold studs glittered 
in the baby's ears. 
She wore a tiny white dress 
leafed with layers 
like a wedding cake.
 
I did not want 
to give her back.
 
The baby's curls coiled tightly 
against her scalp, 
another alphabet. 
I read new new new. 
My mother gets tired. 
I'll chew your hand.
 
The baby left my skirt crumpled, 
my lap aching. 
Now I'm her secret guardian, 
the little nub of dream 
that rises slightly 
but won't come clear.
 
As she grows, 
as she feels ill at ease, 
I'll bob my knee.
 
What will she forget? 
Whom will she marry? 
He'd better check with me. 
I'll say once she flew 
dressed like a cake 
between two doilies of cloud. 
She could slip the card into a pocket, 
pull it out. 
Already she knew the small finger 
was funnier than the whole arm.

                                         Naomi Shihab Nye






Thanks for reading, S ;-)