Wedding Cake - Celebration

A cake is a recognised symbol of any celebration and has been for centuries. A wedding cake has always been a traditional centre piece to the occasion of a marriage, but it has taken different forms. Originally called 'Bride's Pie', it was a savoury dish and the main food shared by guests. There would sometimes be a 'Groom's Cake', which was a dark, rich fruit cake described as heavily laden with liquor. Over time, the savoury pie gave way to sweet cake, sugar coated and often tiered. The whiteness and refinement of the sugar and the number of tiers, was a sign of wealth.

The term 'Royal Icing' came from Queen Victoria's wedding cake. She wanted pure white icing to match her wedding gown and the icing had to be strong to hold the tiers.

Wedding cakes take many styles, becoming an artistic feature, like layered cupcakes of different flavours and assorted colours. Fruitcake, chocolate, carrot and sponge can all have a place. Instead of building tiers supported by posts, cakes can be placed one on top of another, or separated on to cake stands of various heights and linked together by ribbon.

My, or should I say, our, wedding cake was as special as it could be. It was made for us as a gift by a lovely lady, the mother of a long-standing friend. Her kindness and generosity meant a great deal. The cake, traditional dark fruitcake, in tiers, iced in ivory with pale peach sugar flowers and silver coloured tiny charms, was a breath-taking work of art. It tasted delicious and was commented on for years. 

A Good Wedding Cake

4lb of love

1/2lb of sweet temper

1lb of butter of youth

1lb of blindness of faults

1lb of pounded wit

1lb of good humour

2lbs of sweet argument

1 pint of rippling laughter

1 wine glass of common sense

A dash of modesty

Put the love, good looks and a sweet temper into a well-furnished house.

Beat the butter of youth into a cream and mix well together with the blindness of faults.

Stir the pounded wit and good humour into the sweet argument, then add the rippling laughter and common sense.

Work the whole together until everything is well mixed and bake gently for ever.

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Thanks for reading. Pam x

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Calendars - It's A Date

 
“Thirty days hath September,
April, June and November.
February has twenty-eight alone,
All the rest have thirty-one,
Excepting leap year, that’s the time
When February’s days are twenty-nine.

I’d be lost without our calendar. It hangs on the wall in the back room, telling us what we’re doing and where we’re doing it, year in, year out. Everything is there, birthdays, appointments, football fixtures, holidays and all manner of notable events. I tried a ‘Filofax’ once but found it completely unsuitable for my needs. I wasn’t jetting off round the world, just travelling the North West of the UK by road in my first Nissan Micra and the journeys were infrequent, so a lot of the features were wasted on me. My husband logs everything into his phone calendar. I haven’t bothered to teach myself how to do it. I prefer pen and paper where I can flip over one month to the next. Some aspects of modern technology I’m happy to do without.

I found some interesting history and discovered that the Ancient Egyptians were the first civilisation to use a solar calendar, to help predict the River Nile’s annual flooding. The information failed to state how accurate it was.

From Wikipedia, “Roman Calendar and Julian Reform: The Romans developed the Julian calendar, introduced by Julius Caesar in 45 BC, which was a significant step in organising the solar year. Gregorian Calendar (1582): Pope Gregory XIII introduced the Gregorian calendar as a refinement of the Julian calendar in 1582, which is now the internationally accepted civil calendar.”

Based on a true story and with a strong cast of ‘A’ list actors, ‘Calendar Girls’, released in 2003, was awarded the British Comedy Award for the Best Comedy Film. It gives a light-hearted insight into serious illness and a brilliant idea to raise awareness and boost funds for charity. A stage production is currently on tour and there is a musical version.

My childhood spent with my mother’s choice of music from her rack of records included Neil Sedaka. We would dance to Happy Birthday, Sweet Sixteen and Calendar Girl.

If I was fortunate enough to be given an Advent Calendar on the run up to Christmas, it would be a pretty, sparkly addition to our decorations, covered in a fine glitter that left shiny dust behind each time it was touched. Behind each tiny door, numbered with the date, a symbol of Christmas waited to be found. No sweet, no chocolate, yet magi

The Good Old Days

Pity the poor children
Of today, with their calendars
Stuffed with chocolates,

Never to know the thrill
Of opening a small cardboard door
And discovering behind it

A picture of a bell.

Brian Bilston

Anyway, we’re off to one of our ‘notable events’ that has been on our calendar since last year and carried forward to the actual date this year. John Lodge ‘Days of Future Passed’ concert at the Royal Northern College of Music, Manchester. Tuesday, 8th April. I just need to breathe slowly, not get too excited and I’ll be fine.

Thanks for reading, Pam x

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