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| Meadow Flowers - glass panel art by Stephanie Bowen, 2019 |
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| Girl in a Field with Red Poppies - by Frank Buchser, 1878 |
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| Meadow Flowers - glass panel art by Stephanie Bowen, 2019 |
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| Girl in a Field with Red Poppies - by Frank Buchser, 1878 |
The garden is looking sorry for itself. Chopped down for winter, the three intertwined buddleia are naked sticks protruding from the soil, shorter than the fence. They look dead, but I’m sure I haven’t killed them. I can’t say the same for the annoying bindweed that was wrapped tightly around more branches than I realised. It has disappeared for now. Springtime will see it re-emerge, ready to attack, and once again I’ll be fighting the losing battle of trying to keep it away. I’m considering training it on to some trellis somewhere at the side. It is an attractive plant, just damages other things. We’ll see. The buddleia didn’t flower very well and I didn’t see a single butterfly, though I was away for most of the summer.
I'm not a good gardener, home or away, but I make an effort and do my best. Bulbs are planted for spring. I look forward to daffodils, tulips, irises, grape hyacinths and something I’ve never heard of that looked very pretty on the box. I do this every autumn, full of enthusiasm, expecting to grow the best spring garden ever and the wonderful flowers will compensate for every ache and pain. Something is always lacking – green fingers – so, in all seasons I try to plant things that will flower nicely and look after themselves. A favourite is the Totally Tangerine geum. They come back stronger each year. There are two, in different flower beds. In bloom, one is more stunning than the other. The slightly weaker one was bought when I was feeling cross about someone connected to football and I think it shows, but it doesn’t matter now.
I love to have flowers in the house. Last week I was overwhelmed and delighted to be given beautiful roses including yellow ones for friendship from a lovely friend of many years. She didn’t know this, but things have been tough for me lately. The flowers, with their special significance, really helped to cheer me up.
I always have daffodils in remembrance of my father. When he passed away, his garden path was lines with an abundance of shades of yellow, cream and orange created by an amazing display of various daffodils. It’s nice to see them appear in my garden.
I hope I have success with poppies next year. They always look lovely, but can be so delicate that they don’t last very long.
I’ve chosen two poems,
Daffodils I’m also branching
out on my family tree following an email from a distant relative. We’ve been in
contact before but never met and don’t share a bloodline, but we are linked
together by the marriage of our respective great grandparents which puts us on
the same branch in our ancestry and we can help each other out with
information. Stepping out of my direct bloodline has sent me on a fascinating
journey – one of those that starts on Ancestry.co.uk at about nine o’clock p.m.
for an hour, but carries on beyond midnight. It’s never ending.
My poem,
Branches of my family tree
Stretching out of my bloodline,
Yet belonging to what is me,
What I consider mine.
I’m gripped by who has gone before,
How they lived and why they died
And how they make me yearn for more,
Despite the many tears I’ve cried
For people I have never known.
Those who lived before my birth,
My kindred spirits having flown
Beyond the confines of this earth,
I will embrace you in Heaven.
PMW 2021
Thanks for reading, keep safe, Pam x
Manchester Bee, beautiful, symbolic and instantly
recognisable. My ancestry is firmly
rooted in the city, Moss Side, Openshaw, Chorlton-On-Medlock, Ancoats,
Stretford, Northenden and more recently Wythenshawe. They rest in Southern
Cemetery, some known to me, many others long before my time, my people, my bloodline,
my family. Some, my mother’s side, lived in Sale. It was in Cheshire then,
affluent, even posh. I’m proud to have been born there and I’m happy that it is
part of Greater Manchester now (not everyone is, sorry) because it unites all
my family under the same umbrella and I like that. The Manchester Bee is for us
all.
The first insect sting I ever had happened in Wythenshawe
Park. I was about six I think. Nanna Hetty had taken me out to play and we were
sitting on a bench to eat our ice cream. I remember her sitting down first and
wafting a bee out of the way for me to sit beside her. The bee must have gone
under the wooden slats of the seat to come out again as I sat. I cried out with pain on my upper leg and
there was the bee-sting, sticking out of my skin. Nanna knew what to do and
looked after me. I sobbed and sobbed as she got the barb out, taking care not
to squeeze. I was brave. Back at her house, the sting area dabbed with vinegar,
I soon recovered. Sixty years later, the memory and associated trauma is still
strong. Up to now, I haven’t had any more bee stings, but I give them their own
space and plenty of respect.
My garden, such as it is – largely concrete ground with
planting areas and tubs – has plants attractive to butterflies and bees
including buddleia, sunflowers and a geum, beautiful and orangey called Totally
Tangerine which I just had to have when we first planted this new garden. It
comes back bigger and more bountiful every year, of course.
Reading up about bees, I have learnt that ‘in the old days’
news of a bee-keeper’s death would be passed on to them and their hives would
be shrouded in black cloth. This was to reassure bees that they were to stay
and carry on. American poet, John
Greenleaf Whittier mentions this in his poem, Telling the Bees.
Last week, a special little ‘Bee’ died. Nine year old Jordan
Banks, who played football for Clifton Rangers Bees under 9s, passed away after
being struck by lightning. My heart
broke for this beautiful little boy and his family, not known to me, but part
of our neighbourhood as he attended our local primary school. I gave my daughter some flowers to lay at the
junior school gate when she took my grandson to school. Yesterday, my son went
to see all the flowers and tributes when he took my granddaughter to school.
Jordan, doing what he loved, kicking a football about in the fresh air, a selfless
young man who did so much for others in his short life. He was something special.
Tempted as I was to choose Arthur Askey’s ‘The Bee Song’, I opted for Emily Dickinson instead:
A Yellow Day
I followed the mountain trail waymarked in yellow
To a meadow of dandelions - so yellow and mellow.
The colour amazed me and held me entranced.
Happily I ran through them, I skipped - I danced.
At first glance I wondered at the flowers
For I'd trekked mountain tracks for many hours.
But cresting a rise I happened upon this sight-
Yellow, way into the distance - what a delight.
The path petered out in this verdant display,
So I stopped for lunch and amongst them I lay.
A footpath signpost caught my attention.
Did I tell you it was yellow? Did I mention?
I still recall that glorious day
When I wandered far and further away
Into the mountains - snow covered still,
To breathe in the air and get my fill
Of yellow - yellow flowers - yellow signs -
It was a yellow day.